Healthy relationships of all sorts have to start of with you knowing what you need from the other person and making it very clear to them that these are your expectations, boundaries and rules for allowing that person to be apart of your human experience. No one can give you what you need if they don’t know what it is that you desire. So first you have to have a clear understanding of the level of your personal needs and make sure that first you are fulfilling those things before you can ask or expect anyone else to meet those things for you. You have to know you and knowing yourself requires hard work but will be worth it in the end. All of us need somebody to be there for us. We all need that person who are souls can connect with, cherish and support. We are meant to live this life with other people but we can’t expect other people to make us happy because that is only something we can do. You are the ice cream of your life and people are the cherry so make sure your “cherry on top” represents something that your soul needs to thrive.

Until Jesus Comes, Robert